Just as men can be shamed for desiring feminine women, they can also be shamed for objectifying them. This is the biological explanation of why most men want a woman with this body shape, and why women with these bodies are traditionally plastered all over magazines and billboards. These are visible signs that she’ll be able to give birth to a healthy child. Men are biologically wired to seek a woman with a youthful face, small waist, big hips and big breasts. As such, many prefer to lie or keep the truth to themselves. In fact, when a man admits any of the ‘secrets’ in this advice guide, it can possibly trigger people, start arguments and get him accused of discrimination. He might even be accused of being against equality of opportunity for both genders. The problem is: if a man comes out and says he’s not attracted to bossy and assertive women, he’s often accused of being weak and intimidated by strong partners. But it doesn’t change the fact that it’s inherently masculine to take charge and be a leader – and men are mostly attracted to feminine behavior. Both genders should be granted equality of opportunity to chase leadership roles. That’s great, if a woman wants to do that. Well, third-wave feminism is teaching ladies to strive to become leaders in the workplace, to make important decisions in the boardroom and (in some cases) to take charge of their relationships. So, why is this becoming a secret obsession?
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